Annoyed.

Some one I had met on a public forum has just announced she is pregnant. One would normally be happy for such person. But sadly I can not be. She is a single mother by choice. Yet she never really had the finacial stability to do this. She is young and nieve. And is relying on goverment payments to support herself and the baby she already has.
This time she tried dating. Dated a guy for all of a week, decided that she would TTC with him and fell pregnant the first time they had sex. Two weeks ago we all told her what she was doing was crazy as bat shit. That it was endangering the child she has already as she really did not know the guy, but obviously she thought she knew better.
It annoys me that such a person needs to either have AI or sex once and fall pregnant, and myself and a few of my other friends struggle in their happy marriages to have their families. And have it cost them finacially. For some the cost is crippling.